Author: havenueblog
My Favorite Memes pt 1
Girls and Guys can do “better” than Girls and Guys
I saw a girl wearing a shirt that said “girls can do it better”
YOU ARE LITERALLY ADVOCATING THAT GIRLS ARE BETTER THAN GUYS
WHY CANT GIRLS AND GUYS BE EQUAL
WHY DOES THE POWER HAVE TO SHIFT
Sure, in history and all girls didn’t have the same rights we have now, but that doesn’t mean that we should be crazy feminists about it.
What are your thoughts?? I’m curious and not very educated so help a girl out thanks
Haven
Teens- why you shouldn’t date in high school.
Let me tell you a story my mom told me. When she was 16-17 years old, she had a guy friend. He was really attractive and could get any girl he wanted. My mom found out that the same guy ended up sleeping with a girl that wasn’t really popular and (not trying to be mean) was over weight and had hygiene problems. I guess it was really bad. I’m just trying to explain that a guy will literally be with any girl to get what he wants.
Sure, you might find “the one” that just has to be different. Just trust me. Be careful and look out for the guys/girls that only care about sleeping with you. Oh, but I mean hoes will be hoes, so if you’re about that life go ahead. 👻
I HAVE SO MUCH TO SAY ABOUT THIS
haven
My friends are living memes 💯
Funny video 😂
Went to Starbucks with my friend 😂😂😂
When I was __ Years Old.
When I 7 years old, I found that I didn’t like anyone. Seriously, I was totally introverted and didn’t like talking to other kids. I would hurt myself every day on the monkey bars. I was best friends with the nurse. 😉
When I was 8 years old, I realized my mom was the only one who truly cared about me. I didn’t understand the meaning of family, but I knew she was my mom, if that makes sense.
When I was 9 years old. I found true friendship across the street from my house, Katy and Andrew. Every day we would all play together, whether it was sharpening sticks, or running from homeless guys in the forest. Andrew’s older brother was over at my house, and bumped over my hamster’s cage on accident. RIP Nicky. 😦 (It’s sorta funny now that I think of it, sorry hamster lovers)
When I was 10 years old, I found out I was a bully. Growing up in my school, I was picked on a ton, so I guess that influenced me to do it back. Not only would I do it back, but I would pick on other kids that didn’t deserve it. (#savage) Jk, that’s wrong…
When I was 11 years old, I found out my mom was depressed, and my step dad was abusive. I thought it was my fault. Being manipulated by my step dad, I felt bad all the time. When my step dad and mom broke up, my step dad would tell me all the time that my mom slept with a bunch of guys all the time. This made me super sensitive about that whole topic, and has probably scarred me still to this day. Sorta funny though. In a cruel way..I guess lol
When I was 12 years old, I found out the meaning of liking someone. No, not from the “popular girls” chasing all the boys, I mean sitting on the bus by a boy everyday and not even realizing what I was feeling.
When I was 13 years old, I found out the meaning of regret and sacrifice. My mom and I moved away, so that meant I had to leave all of my friends and the boy I didn’t even know I liked. I never got to tell any of them I was moving, because we moved a week before scheduled.
When I was 14 years old, I found out I was cringy as hell. I was selfish most of the time, and lonely, being homeschooled. I met my best friends at this time through church and dance. I spent loads of time playing The Sims and Minecraft. Even though I was immature, I found God that year of my life. I became happier because of that.
When I was 15 years old, I found out the true, true meaning of love and friendship. I became responsible and motivated. I no longer cared what people thought. I started teaching myself new languages and learned about music. I became productive. My mom met a great guy who is really great. 🙂 (I said great twice)
Being 16 years old, I am obsessed with growing up, makeup, music, and clothes. I don’t party or do drugs like some of the influences I’m around. I do great in school and focus on what’s important to me. I don’t let boys mess with my head. (only rerely…lol)I realize now how important family is.
Biggest Regrets:
Not being in the moment.
Caring what people think.
Lying to my parents
Greatest Achievements:
4.0 GPA
Learning Tagalog and Spanish
Cutting negative people from my life
Finding God.
Being more caring towards other girls my age , which can be such a struggle lol.
Sorry for saying lol all the time
Thanks for reading. ❤
Haven
Tips+Tricks for ACNE!
Dealing with acne is one of the worst things, and sometimes it feels like nothing works…
(It is the the worst thing because of how it looks btw. IT ISN”T UGLY. It just hurts and can be a pain when putting on makeup)
But if you follow these simple tips, I guarentee your acne will start diminishing! Make sure you follow all of these tips, not just a couple. 🙂
- Good old water
You might be annoyed just by reading that, but please TRUST ME! Water is so important for your skin and body to be healthy. Water flushes out all toxins in your body and gets rid of bad oils in ur pores. So fill up that water bottle of yours and drink up. 🙂
2. Cut back on sugar.
This is pretty self-explanitory. Sugar is super bad for your skin and will plug your pores and cause more acne, as I’m sure you do not want!
3. Don’t go to a doctor
Going to the doctor for your acne will most likely not help you, but make things worse. Some of the prescriptions that doctors will give you for acne can severely damage your organs and give you more scars.
4. VEGGIES
Greens are super good for your skin. I knew a guy that had cystic acne, and then he started eating 14 servings of veggies every day! His skin COMPLETELY cleared up. That is super hard to do, but get them veggies.
5. HAIR PRODUCT
This is probably the most important one. I noticed that on both sides of my face near my hair line a pattern that was the same. When you wash your hair, make sure it is all washed off because the excess product will cause acne.
6. Ice Cubes
Putting ice cubes on your face is a great, quick way to reduce inflamation quickly. 🙂
That’s all the tips I have for now. Good luck with your acne, ACNE IS NOT UGLY.
Happy reading
Haven
BEST SONGS | January 2018
If you are sick and tired of listening to Hannah Montana 24/7, then this is the blog post for you. Here are some songs that I have really been loving this month.
Chill songs
Do You Go Up (Original Mix) – Khai
Electric feat Khalid – Alina Baraz
Shot Down – Khalid
Ocean Eyes (Astronomyy Remix) – Billie Eilish
Other random songs;
*NSTYNCT – The Neighbourhood
Ways To Go – Grouplove
Sunrise Trailer Park – Papa Roach
Highway to Hell – AC/DC
Make Me Fade – K.Flay
Outcast – NF
Am I Really Depressed?
A lot of times we don’t know if we are feeling down because our boy/girlfriend basically told us we look fat, or if we really have depression. (That took a wild turn)
You tell yourself this:
I have an okay eh kind of life. My face isn’t the best, my acne isn’t getting better. I’m definitely no model. My few friends are the best influences and never invite me to hang out, I’m always working, and my body isn’t great, as in I don’t have a 6 pack. I’m not happy.
WHAT IF????
what if all of that was false, and just lies you put into your brain? IS that even possible? Aren’t you smart enough to tell the difference? That’s where most people fail to acknowledge.
Let’s pretend all that was said in bold was when you were in a sad, tired mood and feeling bad about yourself. This next paragraph will be when you are in a good, uplifted mood.
You then tell yourself:
I am so grateful for today! My body is looking healthy, my skin is glowing, and I love how my hair has been looking lately. I’m so happy I invited all my friends bowling last night, it was so fun and I really got to help some of them with their issues going on. ..
I could go on, but you get the point. How did you feel when you read the first paragraph compared to the second one? How did your feelings change? Do you understand how much your thoughts impact how you feel?
Those two paragraphs were meant to be happening at the same exact time in that imaginative persons life. Do you see my point? If you are being positive and have a good attitude towards something, you will instantly be more happier and motivated to keep it that way. 🙂
I’m definitely not saying that depression is some made up thing, but there are many ways to help yourself getting out of it. Caring and loving yourself comes first!
Happy reading
Haven
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